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Snapshots from Sweden
by Christen Press, April 1st, 2012 3:55AM

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In Sweden, it’s allll about the Fika. Fika is a social institution here; it means having a coffee break and a treat. The word "Fika" can serve as both a verb and a noun and has quite ambiguous connotations, so the Swedes have fun with it. But it is a tradition central to Swedish life and one I have assimilated to instantly!

So here I am standing in line at Jacob’s Café, a swanky little spot in Haga, the oldest part of Göteborg, ready to have my first authentic Swedish experience. Of course, that means ordering my coffee using full Swedish sentences! Onset anxiety. But first, I have to figure out the Swedish crown. Time for some mental math … Kilograms to pounds, no … Celsius to Fahrenheit, no … Ah, crown to dollar! 22:00? Wait that’s military time! 22 SEK, I’ll figure out how much that is later. Ah, too late I’m in the front.

I’m tempted to jump out of line and find the nearest Starbucks. Instead, I look the barista in the eye with a big nervous grin – it’s time to complete the pass. “Jag skulle vilja ha en kaffee. Tack.” (I really wanted it decaf, but that’s just too complicated.) And now, he’s smiling back at me.

Three weeks later and I still get fjärilar i magen (butterflies) every time I attempt to speak Swedish. And somehow, nobody seems to completely understand me here even when I say the most basic things. Yesterday, I ordered ”en latte” (I’ve learned to keep it simple now), and still the barista looked at me like I was crazy. ”A latte?”  Like always, it's a work in progress...

Stoppage Time:

0-3. (1-2 actually)

The team traveled to Malmö for the Super Cupen Final, where the winner of Allsvenskan (FC Malmö) takes on the winner of the Svenska Cupen (us.) The level of play was a drop-off from the Champions League, in my opinion, but instead of taking over of the game, we somehow lost control of the reigns. Although I played well, I missed opportunity after opportunity in front of the net, but did not feel the gravity of my mistakes until Malmö came back to score two goals and win the game 2-1 in the 89th minute.

When I envisioned my first month playing for FC Göteborg, I imagined big goals in big games and big celebrations to follow. I thought I would have a hard time adjusting to the new social structure and cultural norms. After I had spent six months preparing my soccer, it would be a smooth adjustment, right? Well in reality, the opposite happened. Where I feared I would waver, I thrive. Where I once felt confident, I have been wavering. The worst part is knowing that nobody here knows the player I strive to be or the level at which I can play. My first impression has not been a good one.

When I retire to my apartment to listen to Tracy Chapman and feel sorry for myself, I try to remember that my story is still unwritten. What kind of tale would I tell if it all came easily? I know the hurdles make the race.

 

 

People need trouble -- a little frustration to sharpen the spirit on, toughen it. Artists do; I don't mean you need to live in a rat hole or gutter, but you have to learn fortitude, endurance. Only vegetables are happy. -- William Faulkner


Now, we are in the midst of a two-week break before starting Allsvenskan. I know that the finishing is inside of me. For those of us who search for the back of the net, we know it comes in waves. So, I will ride the waves as they roll in and keep the faith!

 

A Game Day In the Swedish Life


Tune in…


 No…Tune in!


 Stretch out


 Pounding the pavement


 Stay the course


 

Happy Easter… I mean glad påsk!


 Fika, see Off the Post!


 Finding me


 Rediscovering The Game


 Game Time


 

A change of perspective






Rookie for life, Christen Press

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3 comments
  1. Doug Martin
    commented on: April 2, 2012 at 11:51 a.m.
    You need to get rid of Tracy Chapman CD's now, take them to the garbage and toss them out. If you want goals to come in waves, listen to some positive music, upbeat stuff put a spring in your step. PS plough ahead on the Swedish, dont let yourslef fall back to english cause the locals will know it, impose your need to learn it on them .. they can take it.

  1. Liza Wittenberg
    commented on: April 2, 2012 at 5:29 p.m.
    We'd like to second the expansion of the music back in the flat to include something with a little more tempo. However, we love hearing about the learning the language while you're there. I bet your teammates appreciate it.

  1. William McGlockton
    commented on: April 4, 2012 at 9:54 a.m.
    Mo...thanks for the pics. Your dad has been forwarding the blog and Auntie Joan and I have read every one. I grew up in Europe (Berlin), and I think it is so Coooool that you're in Sweden. Don't be too hard on yourself when you're playing...stay in the moment and let the game come to you...ultimately your talent and instincts will take care of the rest. Big hugs from DC...Uncle Bill and Auntie Joan


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