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College Choice: Taking the right steps makes the process more enjoyable

By Lisa Lavelle

Selecting the right college can be frustrating, and even cause anxiety for many families. Some kids will start thinking about their dream college as a freshman in high school, some will take a "wait and see" approach, while others will just simply wait till the last minute hoping to "get recruited" before they consider which college is right for them.

To help families and student-athletes take a proactive approach here are a few things that will hopefully make the process more enjoyable and less frustrating.

For those who started planning early on, kids will change their mind for a number of reasons by their senior year of high school. Some will want to follow their friends and will choose the same college, while other students will say they have found “true love” and will feel pressure to attend a certain college based on their boyfriend or girlfriend.

First -- if you are a student-athlete reading this article in your senior year of high school and you have a boyfriend or girlfriend -- dump 'em. Yes, that is right -- the last thing you need is pressure from someone as you try to focus on college.

This is your time focus on your dreams and goals and the last thing you need is a boyfriend or girlfriend “nagging” you on the phone asking – “who are you having a hamburger with or who are you talking to on the phone.”

If it’s really true love they would encourage you to be the best you can be and if that includes going away to college, then so be it.  And if it’s really meant to be, they will be there when college is over.

Now that we have this off the list, let’s get down to work.  

Creating Your Top 10 College List

Not all colleges are created equal and your dreams are unique as your goals.  So to help you pick the right college academically and athletically here are a few simple things that will help.

If you have not created a list of possible colleges, you should -- it will help you focus your search on colleges that are a great fit both academically and athletically. To make this easy, start by creating a list of your top 10 schools.

As you create your list think about your grades and where you can be viably admitted, the geographic location, size of the school -- urban or rural setting, program of study -- degrees offered, student-services, alumni, and the soccer program.

Try not to make it about the division of play -- instead focus on the overall experience and where you will feel at home for the next four to five years.

Now create a personal ranking system so you can evaluate best fits raking your selected schools based on factors that are important to you, such as a ranking/numbering system with one [1] being most important and five [5] being least important.

To illustrate a ranking system I have created a personal profile of my goals and have selected one of my top 10 colleges.

Example State University
Key Factors -- Importance
Program of study -- 2
Admissions Criteria -- 1
Geographic Location -- 3
Size of the School/Campus -- 4
Student Services -- 4
The Soccer program -- 3
Alumni -- 2

Now that I have prioritized ESU -- time to do some research and see if the opportunity is realistic for me to be admitted and play.

Example State University -- Opportunity for me
√ Admissions -- I have a 4.0 with 10 dual college credits, ACT 32
√ Program of study  -- I want to study Business Administration
√ Location -- I want a warm climate and it’s in California
√ Size of School/Campus -- Multiple Campus with International Locations     
√ Student Services -- Volunteer Center; 12:1 student-teacher ratio    
√ Soccer Program -- 3 seniors, 7 juniors, 6 sophomores, 8 frosh.
√ Alumni -- Network of 97,000+

Based on my ranking of importance, this school fits my goal and objective. Now I need to get started.

Step 1 – Apply to Example State University before January 2016
        Set up a task list of requirements that will be needed for admission – essay - letters
Step 2 – Apply to the NCAA Eligibility Center ASAP
        Ask high school counselor to send “official” transcripts to the NCAA
Step 3 – Send my player profile to the college coach
        Call and follow up – ask questions – invite them to games
Step 4 – Set up an Un-Official Campus Visit – contact admissions and the coach
        Let the coach know you will be on campus – talk to students - staff
Step 5 – Obtain an “un-official” high school transcript from my high school
        Take a copy for the admission officer to see and have on file
Step 6 – Check out the soccer games available online
        Learn about their style of play, read the coach’s bio -- do your homework.
Step 7 – Research Alumni online and find out more
        Talk with Alumni if possible and learn more about the school
Step 8 – Research Scholarships available at ESU.
        Identify scholarships available to make paying for college more affordable
Step 9 – Research the faculty and staff in my chosen area
        Speak with them about the required course work and opportunity
Step 10 – Request more information from ESU
        Find out as much as you can about the college
Step 11 – Obtain letters of recommendation as required by the college
        As the high school counselor – teachers – soccer coach for a letter
Step 12 –Submit the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA).

Be sure to ask about Early Decision dates! And remember college soccer is a 90-day experience and then you train the rest of the year.  

If you are admitted to the college of your dreams, playing soccer and you get injured and the doctor tells you that your playing days are over, make sure you still want to attend the college of your dreams and graduate with a meaningful degree.

Remember, long after your playing days have come and gone due to old age, injury or retirement -- your education will last a lifetime!

FURTHER READING:
The College Process: Be Prepared, Proactive and Persistent
Well-planned campus visits are key to making the right college connection

(Lisa Lavelle is President of The Sport Source, which has been connecting kids to college opportunities since 1989. For more information on The Sport Source’s Official Athletic College Guides, tools, and resources, go to www.TheSportSource.com, whose College Finder MATCHFIT can also be contacted toll free at 866.829.2606.)

4 comments about "College Choice: Taking the right steps makes the process more enjoyable".
  1. James Madison, November 5, 2015 at 6:12 p.m.

    In regard to the threshold question of whether to play soccer in college, consider the time commitment. How many of your 144 hours per week will be required. How many are you willing to devote. And it's not limited to the 90-day fall season. In some programs, you will be expected to train, e.g., in the weight room in the winter, and at least in D1 programs there is a spring season.

  2. R2 Dad replied, November 5, 2015 at 8:16 p.m.

    while it's probably in the book, the understood desire is to play for the University/College. That might not be the best call for your child because, as you mention, D1-D3 will take a huge chunk of your life. Perhaps playing for the Club team at your school will allow students with difficult majors to still play but not have to commit as much time to training and travel.

  3. Ric Fonseca, November 9, 2015 at 8:34 p.m.

    As one who spent countless hours on the field during and off season competition as an ineligible player (the AD at CSU Hayward/East Bay) deemed me ineligible because I'd gone to college and from graduating high school, to the time I tried out, five years had elapsed, yet the AD did not even consider my military years (now exempt by NCAA in determining one's eligibility etc.) and the years I spend as a graduate volunteer assistant at UCLA, I know ONLY TOO WELL how much time is demanded to be a full-time student (attend lectures, labs, study time, write papers,) attend to one's athletic duties,home and away pre-game preps, travel, etc. This served me well when I coached community college ball and CSUN (then a D2 program) All I can say and would and still advice potential student-athletes that only and unless they're going to a D1-D2 or D3 program and have the necessary athletic AND academic skills, then I say go for it. I agree with R2 Dad, but I don't when he calls the potential college student-athlete a "child," as I've learned that they aren't "children" but young men and women. And yes, James Madison's comment is so right on, and then again all seems to be aimed at the D1-3 level, yet, community-junior colleges are just as demanding. Lastly, I applaud and commend the author Lisa Lavelle work, and I can promise that I will read/peruse it as it is a service much needed service (any thoughts of translating it to Spanish?)

  4. BJ Genovese, November 30, 2015 at 4:15 p.m.

    Why isnt anyone offering this advice to parents (mostly) and players that want to play for a college. Start with this. Dont be swayed by the Premier tourneys or College ID camps/tourneys. I have just two many of these and at best the most prestigious (Surf Cup) only had a few college coaches walking around. Most of them were just BS with each other on the corner flag. This is such a scam that is truly robbing parents blind on the hopes that a coach will come and see there kid. What most people dont realize is that this is a scam. In most cases if you email a coach like they all say to do, you will get a response from that coach maybe telling you they will be there but that you should sign up for there (fundraiser) ID camp they have coming up. Such a joke. If I new then what I know now I would have had my Son play multiple sports and never allowed commitment to this game. Its just a money grab. We email every coach (at least 50) who is on the tourney's website of "coaches attending" with a resume of ODP, PDP, id2, etc etc... all supposed programs that were supposed to get you better and prove that your good enough to run with the best. You get jack! Nothing! A coaches pre generated response. Its a scam people. I know what your thinking... but my Jonny is great! Hes special. It doesnt matter. The soccer system in ever way is totally screwed up unless you have some serious connections. Take all that money you are about to spend and put it into a college savins account. I feal really terrible for all the poor latino families I see going to these expensive far away tourny's because the website lists all these coaches that could care less.

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