Doing my best to help out during what seems an unprecedented referee shortage, I've have already managed to referee 14 games this fall. I've been pleasantly surprised at the good behavior of parents and coaches. Perhaps the parents, after watching from afar during the spring in accordance with pandemic protocol, have realized their kids do just fine without parental shouting. And maybe they've been informed of how dire the ref shortage is and comprehend the importance of not chasing them away with abuse.
As for the players, as usual, rule literacy is limited. Some of that is understandable, especially at the younger ages, because soccer's rules often lack precision or can be confusing. For example, I've had kids encroach on kickoffs as they storm forward into the center circle when I blow the whistle, before the ball is played. I get why they would think the whistle signals that the game is on -- when in fact it's not until the kickoff team plays the ball. That's learned quickly, though.
One thing that constantly confuses younger players is believing they need to wait for a whistle to take a goal kick, corner kick or free kick (when the appropriate defender distance isn't required). That's a minor issue and I try to communicate by word or gesture that they can restart play without waiting for the whistle. But with young kids, you gotta give them the go-ahead nearly every time.
The rule ignorance that I find most frustrating, and it's one even top level players and TV commentators often don't understand, is: a player "getting the ball" with a tackle doesn't guarantee that a foul hasn't been committed. If I had a dollar for every time players screamed "I got the ball!" at me I'd be able to pay my annual ref certification fee many times over. Nowhere in the rulebook, which too few players, coaches and TV commentators take the time to read, does "getting the ball" exonerate a foul.
• Getting the ball first does not make the tackle legal.
• Not getting the ball first does make the tackle illegal.
• Getting the ball first but following through with the rest of the body in a careless and or reckless manner or using excessive force does make the tackle illegal.
• "Getting the ball" cannot be used as an excuse for committing a tackle which is out of control.
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